{LabelWhore}

Well almost everyone who knows me, knows that I am pretty open with my sexuality in every form. I don't run around and throw all of my dirt out for the world to see, but I don't really hide it either. I love men and I love very, very select few women as well. I've been bisexual since I was 17. My motto has always been....I'm 'try-sexual'...let me try it...if I like it I'll try it again. So there it is. Anyway, I've never been one to put labels on people. Your sexuality is your own. If you care to discuss it, then so be it. I'm not your average 'carpet-munchin' girl tho. I choose the women I kick it with very strategically. I don't like 'Dykes'{no.offense.just.not.my.thing}. My logic is, if I wanted a man, I'd just get one....better yet ANOTHER one. I prefer very feminine, book bunnies. I like innocent, educated, girly girls like myself. I'm choosy and I have every right to be.

I get irritated with people who label themselves so much. I'm Bisexual. {Period} My family knows, my man knows and that's pretty much it. You won't catch me in a anything, @ Pride marchin' like I'm going to Gay War. That's not my thing. I keep it to myself. Not everyone knows about my lifestyle, and I prefer it that way. I don't need to be judged by anyone except God when it's my time.

So, with that being said-I met this girl at a lesbian bar. When I saw her I thought she was cute, but I kept it moving. She decided to speak. The first 30 seconds of our convo pertained to my 'label'. Are you a 'this', are you a 'that'. Bitch no!!! Her first concern should've been my name. I rudely let her know, that I don't put titles on myself, and walked thee fuck away. There are people new to their sexuality, and those are the muthafuckas that need to stay away from me. I know who I am, and you should too. I am in no mood, at this .point. in my life to teach you anything.

I've had a steady, long term connection {6 yrs} with a female in Muskegon. I see her about 3-4 times a year, and I know that seems like very rarely, but for us, it's good. Bitches catch feelings, and the distance prevents that. She does her thing, and I do mine. When she visits, it's just like old friends catching up. There's no P.D.A., unless we're in that type of environment. I don't believe in pushing my choices in other peoples faces. I'm very reclusive when it comes to my personal life. I guess this would be a good time to give her a nickname.....how about....'Platinum'. 'Platinum' is a sweetheart. Very down to earth, mad sexy, and just overall cool as hell. I never have to speak more than 5 words before she knows what I'm about to say. I love that. We've come super close to being 'friends*only', but nah...that just doesn't work. We have this bond like no other. I've found that someone doesn't have to be all up in your shit, to truly know you. She knows me...really knows me from a distance. {[I Hope She Stays Distant]} LOL
I don't need to put a title to who I am, because the title doesn't make me who I am.

So the moral of this story is.....Don't Wear The Label....Let The Label Wear You.

"I WANT YOU TO FUCK ME IN THE ASS..."

HE says to her. GOTCHA...you thought that title was about a female, huh? LOL

So while talking to my bestie....we ending up conversing about one of her play-toys. Lately, he's been interested in her doing anal on him. At first I was a little creeped out by it, but while researching online tonite, I found out that there is a literal term for women fuckin men in the ass with a strap-on, and it's called 'Pegging'. {I SO can't wait to talk to her tomorrow}

I read that 'Pegging' came about in the 1970's in porno flicks.

It's been around for a minute. I always thought that if a man wanted anything in his ass, he was automatically GAY. That was my ignorance I guess.

It turns out that some men enjoy penetration of some sort, just like we do. I guess it's no different. I think a lot of it comes from the way boys are brought up. ASS PLAY IS GAY PLAY. I figure that as long as he's not requesting that a man fuck him...it's not a big deal....or is it. To some it may be..go figure. As I stated in an earlier entry "everybody's got their thing". It could be feet, tits, genital torture {which I will discuss at a later time} or anything for that matter.

We are brought up to believe that penetration is for a man to perform on a woman-{Period} In this day and age, anything is possible. My 'current' ain't havin it!! Uh-uh! That's not to say I wouldn't be open to it. I've touched on the topic with him, and he's like "Hell NAW!! So I just left it alone. He would be thee only person I would feel comfortable trying it with, because we have history together. As it would be new to him, it's would be DAMN new to my ass....no pun intended. I never could understand though, how lesbian women don't like men, but date butch women...and get fucked with dildos?? Couldn't you just date men? Oh well.

And yes, this photo is of a woman. WOW!

I believe the world would be a much better place if we were more accepting of different things. I'm not saying we have to act on it, but just understand that, somethings that people do, are just what they do, and to them it's normal...just like some of the freaky things we do are normal to us. There are however, some exceptions to this rule: Bestiality, Children....OFF LIMITS!!

I have a few little dark, freaky secrets of my own that I plan to reveal later on in this blog of mine, so stay tuned. The moral of the story is this: Hot Dogs are always for buns!