Well almost everyone who knows me, knows that I am pretty open with my sexuality in every form. I don't run around and throw all of my dirt out for the world to see, but I don't really hide it either. I love men and I love very, very select few women as well. I've been bisexual since I was 17. My motto has always been....I'm 'try-sexual'...let me try it...if I like it I'll try it again. So there it is. Anyway, I've never been one to put labels on people. Your sexuality is your own. If you care to discuss it, then so be it. I'm not your average 'carpet-munchin' girl tho. I choose the women I kick it with very strategically. I don't like 'Dykes'{no.offense.just.not.my.thing}. My logic is, if I wanted a man, I'd just get one....better yet ANOTHER one. I prefer very feminine, book bunnies. I like innocent, educated, girly girls like myself. I'm choosy and I have every right to be.
I get irritated with people who label themselves so much. I'm Bisexual. {Period} My family knows, my man knows and that's pretty much it. You won't catch me in a
anything, @ Pride marchin' like I'm going to Gay War. That's not my thing. I keep it to myself. Not everyone knows about my lifestyle, and I prefer it that way. I don't need to be judged by anyone except God when it's my time.
anything, @ Pride marchin' like I'm going to Gay War. That's not my thing. I keep it to myself. Not everyone knows about my lifestyle, and I prefer it that way. I don't need to be judged by anyone except God when it's my time.So, with that being said-I met this girl at a lesbian bar. When I saw her I thought she was cute, but I kept it moving. She decided to speak. The first 30 seconds of our convo pertained to my 'label'. Are you a 'this', are you a 'that'. Bitch no!!! Her first concern should've been my name. I rudely let her know, that I don't put titles on myself, and walked thee fuck away. There are people new to their sexuality, and those are the muthafuckas that need to stay away from me. I know who I am, and you should too. I am in no mood, at this .point. in my life to teach you anything.
I've had a steady, long term connection {6 yrs} with a female in Muskegon. I see her about 3-4 times a year, and I know that seems like very rarely, but for us, it's good. Bitches catch feelings, and the distance prevents that. She does her thing, and I do mine. When she visits, it's just like old friends catching up. There's no P.D.A., unless we're in that type of environment. I don't believe in pushing my choices in other peoples faces. I'm very reclusive when it comes to my personal life. I guess this would be a good time to give her a nickname.....how about....'Platinum'. 
'Platinum' is a sweetheart. Very down to earth, mad sexy, and just overall cool as hell. I never have to speak more than 5 words before she knows what I'm about to say. I love that. We've come super close to being 'friends*only', but nah...that just doesn't work. We have this bond like no other. I've found that someone doesn't have to be all up in your shit, to truly know you. She knows me...really knows me from a distance. {[I Hope She Stays Distant]} LOL
I don't need to put a title to who I am, because the title doesn't make me who I am.
'Platinum' is a sweetheart. Very down to earth, mad sexy, and just overall cool as hell. I never have to speak more than 5 words before she knows what I'm about to say. I love that. We've come super close to being 'friends*only', but nah...that just doesn't work. We have this bond like no other. I've found that someone doesn't have to be all up in your shit, to truly know you. She knows me...really knows me from a distance. {[I Hope She Stays Distant]} LOLI don't need to put a title to who I am, because the title doesn't make me who I am.
So the moral of this story is.....Don't Wear The Label....Let The Label Wear You.
